Setting goals does not just apply to your career, your finances, or your fitness. Goals apply to every aspect of your life and that includes your relationship.

What’s Holding You Back?
The first thing to do when trying to change the way you’re approaching your love life is to look at what is holding you back. For many people, it’s a lack of trying. Either they’ve been hurt before, they’ve lost confidence, or they just don’t realise they have to. But at the end of the day, if you’re tired of being single, then you need to work at this just as you would anything else.

While some people aren’t trying at all, many other people are simply trying the wrong strategy or focusing on the wrong thing. These are the people who know they don’t want to be single anymore but who aren’t quite sure how to change that.

How to Make the Change
Once you’ve identified the problem, it’s time to start making the change. The first thing to do is to make the commitment to be proactive. That means regularly putting in effort like going where people are or improving the way you talk to people.

Make a Plan
Once you realise that you need to make changes to how you meet and greet people, then make a plan on how you are going to make the changes that need to happen. What do I need to do? How will I do this? When will I do this? Are a couple questions to help formulate a plan.

Sometimes it means not taking the most obvious route, but it is important that you identify the weak points in your game and your strategy and then work to fix those.

What would happen if you made a plan to make a relationship happen or work?