Here are five suggestions that might help you to overcome adversities and develop an attitude of optimism and hope to gently move forward each day:

1. The one thing you can count on is you.
The one thing you can count on is you. I know that might sound cliche, but despite all that has happened around us, and all that will continue to confront us to some extent, we each have the capability to rise beyond the worst that happens and find strength and opportunity to not only keep going, but also to go higher. When we believe in ourselves as “overcomers” we can start to keep move forward, despite adversity.

2. Taking care of yourself will be your best help.
To be strong for yourself, you must take care of yourself. Putting your mental and physical health first will be your best help to gain and maintain a positive outlook. Often, our first step in overcoming a situation around us, is overcoming a situation within us. This won’t resolve the external situation, but it will help us to confront that situation with a new set of choices that will arise when we take care of ourselves first. When we make time for a small and simple “self-care” habit each day, our sense of control increases and that feeling spills over to other areas of our lives.

3. Eliminate the “unessential” things in your day that contribute to your feelings of overwhelm and lack of coping.
Often, our feelings of overwhelm from our bigger challenges are made even greater when we have a list of tasks that we’re not getting through each day. Similarly, sometimes we keep adding things to our daily task list that are not essential. Emails have become a particular “overwhelm” stress factor. Give yourself a break from the daily, busy, unessential tasks (including unessential email responses) and use that time to take the essential break for yourself for which you feel you don’t have time.

4. Do one purposeful thing each day that is most meaningful to you.
Have a simple goal each day to do something that increases your feelings of life satisfaction. Generally accepted human nature is that we all seek meaning and purpose in life—serving something bigger than ourselves. Studies show that when we act in ways that consciously enhance our sense of meaning and purpose, our ability and motivation to get through the challenges of each day is also enhanced. If you can commit to creating a moment of meaning and purpose in each day, your spirit and motivation will be lifted to keep you going to the next day, and the next.

5. Connect to your sources of gratitude.
When hardship and trauma in one area of our lives pervade all other areas, we often feel we cannot experience anything positive in any area of our lives, let alone feel grateful. Yet, research has shown that finding even small things for which to express gratitude evokes and builds positive emotions and helps to re-frame negative experiences. Consistent expression of gratitude has also been shown to protect against depression.